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Dieting - Ugh - Turning the Scales on Weight Loss!

  • Fri 13th Oct 2017 - 9:35am
    When one person in the relationship begins to lose weight, look and feel much younger and fitter and generally feel more motivated all round, this can sometimes leave the other partner feeling left behind. They may already be feeling depressed and disempowered, and your success may exacerbate those feelings. My client 'Janine' experienced this problem with her husband. As she began to lose weight and get a new lease on life, he became increasingly sullen and resentful. Fortunately, they talked it through and she discovered that her husband had noticed the attention 'Janine' was getting from other men as she began to take better care of her appearance. He could see that she was becoming more attractive and confident in herself, and he started to think: 'what if she leaves me?' 'Janine' re-assured her husband and eventually convinced him to accompany her to the gym. He is now on his own path of renewed health and their relationship is stronger than ever. 'Janine' was very glad that rather than mirroring her husband's initial defensive behaviour, she was able to get him to open up and explain how he was feeling. Communication is the key. So what do you do if you are afraid that losing weight may change the dynamics of your significant relationship? Do you stay the way you are to avoid rocking the boat? Well you could do that; but that would only leave you feeling disempowered and resentful. Instead, you could make efforts to include your partner. Try out some healthy low fat recipes and invite him to join you. Discuss the economic advantage of eating home cooked meals rather that getting takeaway. Invite him to come to the gym with you. https://worldhealthreviews.com/thin-from-within-review

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